New caregiver starter kit
Nobody plans for this. It usually starts with a fall, a diagnosis or a phone call. Here is what matters in the first few weeks.
The first week
- 1Find out what the insurance isMedicare, Medi-Cal, a Medicare Advantage plan, VA, or a combination. Almost every option depends on this answer.
- 2Get on the doctor's recordsWithout a signed release the office legally cannot talk to you. Ask for the form on the first visit.
- 3Ask whether home health is coveredIf there is a skilled need and the person is homebound, Medicare pays fully. Many families never think to ask.
- 4Make one list of medicationsEvery bottle, dose and prescriber, in one place. Bring it to every appointment.
- 5Tell one other personCaregiving alone is the single strongest predictor of burnout. Tell somebody now, before you need to.
Paperwork worth gathering early
- Insurance cards — Medicare, supplement, Medi-Cal, VA
- A medication list, including over-the-counter and supplements
- Doctors' names and phone numbers
- Advance health care directive, if one exists
- Power of attorney for health care and for finances
- DD-214 discharge papers, if the person is a veteran
- A release form allowing you to speak with each doctor's office
You may be able to be paid
IHSS
Can pay a family caregiver
Including, in many cases, an adult child or spouse
8 weeks
California Paid Family Leave
Partial wage replacement while caring for a family member
VDC
VA Veteran-Directed Care
A veteran can hire family with a VA-managed budget
